So I confessed much to you yesterday and it feels good to be starting a brand new day. My rhythm, however, is that I can have much success with my first few days/weeks, and then I falter.
Since I have laid my insecurity and weakness bare to you, I can also tell you that my husband, who is the biggest Texas meat and potato lovin man I have ever met, has started on our diet as of Jan. 1.
Here is a photo of my handsome man and me at Christmas just a couple weeks ago by our tree.
We have had over a year and half of changing our mindset around food. Always striving to be healthy eaters, it was a whole new idea and hard concept to wrap our head around what gluten/wheat, casein and sugar does to our bodies. We watched in awed silence as our son came back to us, but even more so, after months of being on the diet, we would watch the transformation happen right before our eyes as his whole personality changed when Big would eat something off his "Stay away from" list. Big was the reason we started the diet, but we have seen the immense benefit to all of our health by eating the way we do. All except Paul. We have spent many hours talking about the changes in me when I adhere to our "joy free" diet. We both experience how I speak more gently, I have more patience with the kids, I don't seem so down all the time and struggle to be motivated. I'm not so easily angered and my emotions don't swing so much. I am not as easily offended, and I find joy in so many more things. I actually enjoy so much more of my life, and the kids sense it too, and it improves their behavior as well.
I had told Paul once that I would love for him to try being on board with our lifestyle for a few months. Paul also struggles with many of the same things I do, being lethargic, mood swings, discontentment, depression, anger, sugar cravings, you name it. I was curious to see, since all of our children have issues with food, as do I, would Paul find the same kind of freedom and joy that we have? I had this dream of wondering to what extent our home could experience peace and joy if we all fueled our body the way it needed. If our bodies weren't at war with itself, then they would have time to heal themselves and there would be more time for joy and understanding. I know that this many sound crazy to you, but even after one week of cutting gluten/dairy/sugar our of our diet, I have experienced already a change in my behavior and attitude. This is not to say that I don't get frustrated, or that Paul and I didn't have a small fight last night. What I am saying is the way I handle myself, feel about myself and others is completely different.
I say all of that to say this, our eating and food lifestyle over the next month or so will become my blogging project. Though I am not an expert by any means, many have come to me seeking advice, recipes, tips, information, websites, and resources. So even though I have always blogged about many different things, and most likely, there will still be a fun and random post thrown in, my focus for the next month will be sharing with you what I have learned in regards to food and resources. I will share our menus, recipes, websites, tips and encouragement. I will be forthcoming and honest about where we are at as a family, and keep you posted on our progress.
Before I move on tomorrow with more specifics, I need to make one thing abundantly clear. Food is not my salvation, nor the way in which I fulfill living in the fruits of the Spirit. I deeply believe that God is the one who heals our bodies. He is the one who gives knowledge and insight and wisdom in how to take care of ourselves. What I also believe is that he knows our bodies better than we do. We knows what it takes to fuel it, make it work, but more than just make our bodies exists, he knows how to make us thrive. Eating an all natural, no processed diet gives us the ability to receive all these gifts. To live in a way where we are more open to his leading.
I have more thoughts on that later, but I just wanted to give you an insight in what I will be blogging about over the next month. I am not your expert, but I am your doorway into resources that can help.
Please feel free to ask questions, correct me, or share what you know. I want this to be a place where people can find good, truthful information about how we take care of our bodies and thrive in our lives. Please join me this month and be encouraged. We can all start over.
Since I have laid my insecurity and weakness bare to you, I can also tell you that my husband, who is the biggest Texas meat and potato lovin man I have ever met, has started on our diet as of Jan. 1.
Here is a photo of my handsome man and me at Christmas just a couple weeks ago by our tree.
We have had over a year and half of changing our mindset around food. Always striving to be healthy eaters, it was a whole new idea and hard concept to wrap our head around what gluten/wheat, casein and sugar does to our bodies. We watched in awed silence as our son came back to us, but even more so, after months of being on the diet, we would watch the transformation happen right before our eyes as his whole personality changed when Big would eat something off his "Stay away from" list. Big was the reason we started the diet, but we have seen the immense benefit to all of our health by eating the way we do. All except Paul. We have spent many hours talking about the changes in me when I adhere to our "joy free" diet. We both experience how I speak more gently, I have more patience with the kids, I don't seem so down all the time and struggle to be motivated. I'm not so easily angered and my emotions don't swing so much. I am not as easily offended, and I find joy in so many more things. I actually enjoy so much more of my life, and the kids sense it too, and it improves their behavior as well.
I had told Paul once that I would love for him to try being on board with our lifestyle for a few months. Paul also struggles with many of the same things I do, being lethargic, mood swings, discontentment, depression, anger, sugar cravings, you name it. I was curious to see, since all of our children have issues with food, as do I, would Paul find the same kind of freedom and joy that we have? I had this dream of wondering to what extent our home could experience peace and joy if we all fueled our body the way it needed. If our bodies weren't at war with itself, then they would have time to heal themselves and there would be more time for joy and understanding. I know that this many sound crazy to you, but even after one week of cutting gluten/dairy/sugar our of our diet, I have experienced already a change in my behavior and attitude. This is not to say that I don't get frustrated, or that Paul and I didn't have a small fight last night. What I am saying is the way I handle myself, feel about myself and others is completely different.
I say all of that to say this, our eating and food lifestyle over the next month or so will become my blogging project. Though I am not an expert by any means, many have come to me seeking advice, recipes, tips, information, websites, and resources. So even though I have always blogged about many different things, and most likely, there will still be a fun and random post thrown in, my focus for the next month will be sharing with you what I have learned in regards to food and resources. I will share our menus, recipes, websites, tips and encouragement. I will be forthcoming and honest about where we are at as a family, and keep you posted on our progress.
Before I move on tomorrow with more specifics, I need to make one thing abundantly clear. Food is not my salvation, nor the way in which I fulfill living in the fruits of the Spirit. I deeply believe that God is the one who heals our bodies. He is the one who gives knowledge and insight and wisdom in how to take care of ourselves. What I also believe is that he knows our bodies better than we do. We knows what it takes to fuel it, make it work, but more than just make our bodies exists, he knows how to make us thrive. Eating an all natural, no processed diet gives us the ability to receive all these gifts. To live in a way where we are more open to his leading.
I have more thoughts on that later, but I just wanted to give you an insight in what I will be blogging about over the next month. I am not your expert, but I am your doorway into resources that can help.
Please feel free to ask questions, correct me, or share what you know. I want this to be a place where people can find good, truthful information about how we take care of our bodies and thrive in our lives. Please join me this month and be encouraged. We can all start over.